"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting a bit nervous.

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I'm going (hopefully) on a date with a chick today. I sent her a message to get today at like 12am that we should meet 6pm in one place. She hasn't answered and it's already 3pm. I don't know if I should call her? Just go there and see if she shows up or not? It's getting annoying.
I don't know here that well. I've seen her twice with friends and both times only talked with her. This is basically the first date. I've also talked with her on FB chat just for a short while.

I'm getting a feeling that I should cancel the date since I don't think she's intrested.

So some advice would be very helpful :)
Thank you in advance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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blinkwatt101

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Yeah pal,looks like you should let this one go.

FYI,try to keep conversations on the phone,not to text.
 
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Lol she sent me a txt :) Nice! I'm back on track. Will meet her in one hour!
 
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