Gettin Shut Down On The Phone

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

jdollarthegreat

Don Juan

Dec 21, 2009

EBickford said:
well i got strong game in person, its when i text that kills me. like my c+f is just overkill, and/or it doesnt work over texting. so all the momentum i build up with chicks is somehow killed.

You answered ya own question bro, ya text game ain't good so don't text. Just call them up and don't say much just try to arrange a meeting since ya strength is in person. Texting is junk man, it used to be cool but I realized I was losing with it as well cause u give too much about yaself away and theres less mystery wit it.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.