"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gettin Lazy

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anyone ever have this feeling of laziness. Like when u get a girl's number and u dont feel like calling, or when u see a hot girl and u want to approach, but u dont feel like it. I have this feeling sometimes, and i dont know y, but sometimes i jus dont feel like having to call girls up all the time, talk to them, and then set up a date with them.
or when i see a real good lookin girl, but dont have the energy to deal with approaching and being funny and watever, so i let her pass by.
I really dont feel afraid anymore about approaching, but i jus dont feel like it sometimes.
anyone else feel like this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That’s easy... The reason you feel that why is because you feel insecure, the way I deal with such moments is using a modified line I heard in sin city "come on (enter what you call yourself), prove your still worth a dam".

The reason why this works for me is because I have also anchored that phrase to make me want to take action, every time I used it before I took action so whenever I say it my mind is programmed to give me that kick up the arse I need to get in there.

Hope that helps...

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Amethystos... (Ironically I don't drink anymore... Dam you AA!!!)
 
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