"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gettin Lazy

Raikojo17

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anyone ever have this feeling of laziness. Like when u get a girl's number and u dont feel like calling, or when u see a hot girl and u want to approach, but u dont feel like it. I have this feeling sometimes, and i dont know y, but sometimes i jus dont feel like having to call girls up all the time, talk to them, and then set up a date with them.
or when i see a real good lookin girl, but dont have the energy to deal with approaching and being funny and watever, so i let her pass by.
I really dont feel afraid anymore about approaching, but i jus dont feel like it sometimes.
anyone else feel like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That’s easy... The reason you feel that why is because you feel insecure, the way I deal with such moments is using a modified line I heard in sin city "come on (enter what you call yourself), prove your still worth a dam".

The reason why this works for me is because I have also anchored that phrase to make me want to take action, every time I used it before I took action so whenever I say it my mind is programmed to give me that kick up the arse I need to get in there.

Hope that helps...

Love

Amethystos... (Ironically I don't drink anymore... Dam you AA!!!)
 
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