"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gettin Lazy

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anyone ever have this feeling of laziness. Like when u get a girl's number and u dont feel like calling, or when u see a hot girl and u want to approach, but u dont feel like it. I have this feeling sometimes, and i dont know y, but sometimes i jus dont feel like having to call girls up all the time, talk to them, and then set up a date with them.
or when i see a real good lookin girl, but dont have the energy to deal with approaching and being funny and watever, so i let her pass by.
I really dont feel afraid anymore about approaching, but i jus dont feel like it sometimes.
anyone else feel like this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That’s easy... The reason you feel that why is because you feel insecure, the way I deal with such moments is using a modified line I heard in sin city "come on (enter what you call yourself), prove your still worth a dam".

The reason why this works for me is because I have also anchored that phrase to make me want to take action, every time I used it before I took action so whenever I say it my mind is programmed to give me that kick up the arse I need to get in there.

Hope that helps...

Love

Amethystos... (Ironically I don't drink anymore... Dam you AA!!!)
 
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