This girl i have been talking to and lately been hooking up with won't give me head or go any further. I know and can tell taht she kinda wants to, but she wants us to be datin first and wait longer etc... I have seen several threads on here about this situation but i can't locate them for this advice... if you guys could help.... thanks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
gettin girl to give head
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Not all girls enjoy giving head.
Start going down on her and getting her off then see what happends.
Start going down on her and getting her off then see what happends.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
If she kinda wants to but wants to wait longer, then--GASP!--you'll have to wait. She may be shy and needs/wants encouragement, but don't force her. She'll go down on you wholeheartedly when she's ready.requested said:This girl i have been talking to and lately been hooking up with won't give me head or go any further. I know and can tell taht she kinda wants to, but she wants us to be datin first and wait longer etc... I have seen several threads on here about this situation but i can't locate them for this advice... if you guys could help.... thanks
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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tell her: get on your knees and start suckin beeyotch and then you hit her face with your ****
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WTF is "officially dating"? Does she want a dating contract?requested said:thats what im saying, she is ready... even she knows it.. but she is worried about the technicality of not officially dating....