"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This girl i have been talking to and lately been hooking up with won't give me head or go any further. I know and can tell taht she kinda wants to, but she wants us to be datin first and wait longer etc... I have seen several threads on here about this situation but i can't locate them for this advice... if you guys could help.... thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not all girls enjoy giving head.

Start going down on her and getting her off then see what happends.
 

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requested said:
This girl i have been talking to and lately been hooking up with won't give me head or go any further. I know and can tell taht she kinda wants to, but she wants us to be datin first and wait longer etc... I have seen several threads on here about this situation but i can't locate them for this advice... if you guys could help.... thanks
If she kinda wants to but wants to wait longer, then--GASP!--you'll have to wait. She may be shy and needs/wants encouragement, but don't force her. She'll go down on you wholeheartedly when she's ready.
 

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thats what im saying, she is ready... even she knows it.. but she is worried about the technicality of not officially dating....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tell her: get on your knees and start suckin beeyotch and then you hit her face with your ****
 

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You can always put your d-i-c-k in a chocolate box, and tell her she can't use her hands to get the chocolate.
 

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What a coincidence... I've just bumped it.
 

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requested said:
thats what im saying, she is ready... even she knows it.. but she is worried about the technicality of not officially dating....
WTF is "officially dating"? Does she want a dating contract?
 
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