Billy_Badass
Don Juan
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Well, you people have heard this story 6 trillion times before. I was 21 years old, hadn't even kissed a girl. My friend introduced me to DYD, and from their, I stumbled on this site, and masf. (I tend to prefer this one). I managed to scrounge up enough game to get myself a girl, and lose my vcard. But then something happened. I fell so "in love" with this girl, that I lost my self respect and turned into a gigantic *****.
I have since then been dumped, and disrespected so many times, its not even funny.
The sad thing is, I think I had everything in check as far as LTR stuff goes for the first three months or so. I kept her in check if she disrespected me, I got sex anytime I wanted it(2-3 times a day), and in general, I was pretty satisfied with the way I handled things. I followed this stuff fairly religiously. I was the man, I wore the pants. But then the belt loosened and my pants fell off.:moon: haha, I try and keep a good sense of humor about it.
I won't bore you with the details, all you need to know is that I became a big *****, and women want a man with balls, not a cooch. Thus begins my recovery.
Couple of questions...
1) At the same time I got dumped, all my friends ditch me. I am seriously starting from square 1 socially. I have no ****ing clue what to do. I could really use some male friends, so I can start a new social circle, but I find it to be hard to get off the ground. Any suggestions?
2) I understand that in LTRs, if you get disrespected by your woman, you call her out on her bull****. Sometimes, I come off as a total ass in the process. I want my womans respect, but I don't wanna be a jerk either. How do I find the happy medium of having balls without the ******* part?
With that said, I am approaching almost everyday, anytime something catches my eye. I have gotten about 10 numbers, and have done maybe 45-50 cold approaches since I got dumped. Not a big number, but at least I ain't sitting down. I even went out on a date, although she turned out to be weird. ****in myspace... prolly won't go that route again. So I am doing something at least, but now I need, guidance, wisdom, and direction from you pros!
I have since then been dumped, and disrespected so many times, its not even funny. The sad thing is, I think I had everything in check as far as LTR stuff goes for the first three months or so. I kept her in check if she disrespected me, I got sex anytime I wanted it(2-3 times a day), and in general, I was pretty satisfied with the way I handled things. I followed this stuff fairly religiously. I was the man, I wore the pants. But then the belt loosened and my pants fell off.:moon: haha, I try and keep a good sense of humor about it.
I won't bore you with the details, all you need to know is that I became a big *****, and women want a man with balls, not a cooch. Thus begins my recovery.
Couple of questions...
1) At the same time I got dumped, all my friends ditch me. I am seriously starting from square 1 socially. I have no ****ing clue what to do. I could really use some male friends, so I can start a new social circle, but I find it to be hard to get off the ground. Any suggestions?
2) I understand that in LTRs, if you get disrespected by your woman, you call her out on her bull****. Sometimes, I come off as a total ass in the process. I want my womans respect, but I don't wanna be a jerk either. How do I find the happy medium of having balls without the ******* part?
With that said, I am approaching almost everyday, anytime something catches my eye. I have gotten about 10 numbers, and have done maybe 45-50 cold approaches since I got dumped. Not a big number, but at least I ain't sitting down. I even went out on a date, although she turned out to be weird. ****in myspace... prolly won't go that route again. So I am doing something at least, but now I need, guidance, wisdom, and direction from you pros!
