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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Get your Sh!T together
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Great article. So true. I took a break from girls just for this lately, so I can come back strong. I seriously think this is a great article for those in late twenties, early thirties who have to change. The economy killed my game this year. I'm coming back strong. I have a graduate degree, but focused too much on getting laid and wasted a ****load of money on partying. I used to get so much puvsy, and still do to some extent, that it would make your head spin. But sometimes, it's not Beta or anything to do with that when you lose your game, it's resources. We have to take care of number one first. I kinda fit in this category, but have no kids, still hook up with hot women (I take care of myself and know how to seduce them, even though I'm broke) but would have 100 times the success once I get everything together. The one thing the article doesn't mention is that with the current economy, sometimes these things are out of your control. Lot's of people are struggling out there.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I agree with amoka's intent on posting this article. Thumbs up