"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get your mind off women

frivolousz21

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I will have to tell you a about the last 5 days..

this is not some political agenda..lets just say I spent 5 days campaigning for the LOSER! :) anyways I live in Il..and I went to Mo to do this.

I am very into polotics and passionate about it.

Women were the last thing on my mind last weekend and this week.

I met 3 women.

all of them were very attractive and smart.

what made it easy was because I didnt care..well yea I did..I saw them and thought she is pretty hot..but that was it..I was so bent on helping the guy I wanted for President. I was very natural..probably passionately natural.

and I ended up with 3 numbers.

next time your at home and you are beating urself up over no women...do something your passionate about...infact always be passionate in ur life.

and your confidence with rise..and the women will come more naturally
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheNonPedant

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glad that worked for ya.

But many people who sarge and purposely go out to meet women can get the same results.

It depends on what works for you and what you're comfortable with.
 

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Oh I agree!

but if u are AFC and it consumes your life...it would be harder
 

thefonz

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lets just say I spent 5 days campaigning for the LOSER! :)
Let's be realistic, they're BOTH losers.....thats it for my political thought, back to chicks
 
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