"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Get to know you" ???s

Handsome Dee

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What are som good qstions to really get to know a female besides.....

Where you from/how old are you/what skool you go to??
What you like to do?
How was ur Past Relationships like?
How you feel about me?
What type of boys do u like??
What type of relationship are you looking for?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SandHawk

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Handsome Dee said:
How was ur Past Relationships like?
How you feel about me?
What type of boys do u like??
What type of relationship are you looking for?
Those are NOT good questions you ask a girl when you first meet or on your first date. In fact, those are the worst kind of questions you ask! Your goal is to get to know her, which means, you're going to ask questions about her hobbies, her youth, friends, education, work.

However, your don't seduce a girl mainly by giving her a questionnaire. No, instead you get to know her by doing FUN things with her. You go bowling, or mini golfing, or whatever, and constantly tease her, be ****y and funny, make little jokes about her goofy traits or whatever. Don't question her, make fun with her!

If you think you suck at conversation, go read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
 

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SandHawk said:
Those are NOT good questions you ask a girl when you first meet or on your first date. In fact, those are the worst kind of questions you ask! Your goal is to get to know her, which means, you're going to ask questions about her hobbies, her youth, friends, education, work.

However, your don't seduce a girl mainly by giving her a questionnaire. No, instead you get to know her by doing FUN things with her. You go bowling, or mini golfing, or whatever, and constantly tease her, be ****y and funny, make little jokes about her goofy traits or whatever. Don't question her, make fun with her!

If you think you suck at conversation, go read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
im talking about a girl whose around 16...or would the same rules apply??
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Handsome Dee said:
im talking about a girl whose around 16...or would the same rules apply??
No. Because younger girls love boring guys with boring questions.

What do you think, genius?

Yes, you still have to be interesting and fun. And the "getting to know you" questions happen throughout the course of a date/conversation. It's not like a list of questions.

Typically you talk about the interesting things happening around you in the moment. Not asking her for a 10 year resume.

There's nothing sexy or exciting about getting to know someone. What's sexy and exciting is this girl meeting a fun, intelligent guy who takes her on adventures.
 

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Ask what YOU want to know about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Handsome Dee, for your sake I hope you really are handsome! Because you sure won't win her with your questions ;)
 

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when I read the list of questions you have up here, I was like wtf. thanks that somebody already pointed out that those were the WORST questions, EVER, specially asking about past relationships and stuff. Why do you, as a dude, care about that?

You are a dude, be interesting, adventurous, and take your girls outside her zone to explore the world. Become what she is not. Talk about interesting ****s that don't really matter and by time you know it, you will already know a lot more about her, alright?
 
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