"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Get to know you" ???s

Handsome Dee

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What are som good qstions to really get to know a female besides.....

Where you from/how old are you/what skool you go to??
What you like to do?
How was ur Past Relationships like?
How you feel about me?
What type of boys do u like??
What type of relationship are you looking for?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SandHawk

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Handsome Dee said:
How was ur Past Relationships like?
How you feel about me?
What type of boys do u like??
What type of relationship are you looking for?
Those are NOT good questions you ask a girl when you first meet or on your first date. In fact, those are the worst kind of questions you ask! Your goal is to get to know her, which means, you're going to ask questions about her hobbies, her youth, friends, education, work.

However, your don't seduce a girl mainly by giving her a questionnaire. No, instead you get to know her by doing FUN things with her. You go bowling, or mini golfing, or whatever, and constantly tease her, be ****y and funny, make little jokes about her goofy traits or whatever. Don't question her, make fun with her!

If you think you suck at conversation, go read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
 

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SandHawk said:
Those are NOT good questions you ask a girl when you first meet or on your first date. In fact, those are the worst kind of questions you ask! Your goal is to get to know her, which means, you're going to ask questions about her hobbies, her youth, friends, education, work.

However, your don't seduce a girl mainly by giving her a questionnaire. No, instead you get to know her by doing FUN things with her. You go bowling, or mini golfing, or whatever, and constantly tease her, be ****y and funny, make little jokes about her goofy traits or whatever. Don't question her, make fun with her!

If you think you suck at conversation, go read "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.
im talking about a girl whose around 16...or would the same rules apply??
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Handsome Dee said:
im talking about a girl whose around 16...or would the same rules apply??
No. Because younger girls love boring guys with boring questions.

What do you think, genius?

Yes, you still have to be interesting and fun. And the "getting to know you" questions happen throughout the course of a date/conversation. It's not like a list of questions.

Typically you talk about the interesting things happening around you in the moment. Not asking her for a 10 year resume.

There's nothing sexy or exciting about getting to know someone. What's sexy and exciting is this girl meeting a fun, intelligent guy who takes her on adventures.
 

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Ask what YOU want to know about her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Huffman

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Handsome Dee, for your sake I hope you really are handsome! Because you sure won't win her with your questions ;)
 

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when I read the list of questions you have up here, I was like wtf. thanks that somebody already pointed out that those were the WORST questions, EVER, specially asking about past relationships and stuff. Why do you, as a dude, care about that?

You are a dude, be interesting, adventurous, and take your girls outside her zone to explore the world. Become what she is not. Talk about interesting ****s that don't really matter and by time you know it, you will already know a lot more about her, alright?
 
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