"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get the positive Energy in :)

Al Moh.

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So there have been some complains lately about people bringing in negative energy to this board.

Well, guys, you know what, I LIKE negative energy because it's so challenging. It's a chance to combat it with positive energy :)

It's true, as you feel, she shall feel but this is too limited. We should make everyone feel great!

The surest sign that you are a Don Juan is fun. Who is this guy, unleashing all his wit, his social proof, his sexuality, everything on a woman, spending time to seduce her, succeeding in the end maybe, just to say: "Wooooooooooooowww. I did it, thank god this is over. I seduced her, I'm such a Don Juan. So let's take some time off now and do something fun for a change..."

The Don Juan has fun no matter what, even if he doesn't get the girl. The Don Juan is funny, he makes others laugh, he even makes himself laugh and have fun. I love people who can laugh about themselves and I am one of those people too, because on my path through this world I seriously do some stupid stuff from time to time.

Why not shine a little? Get up from your chair, people, stretch out, breath deep, jump around. Go party eben if there is no "reason" to celebrate. Actually there is always a reason: To have fun!

You don't have to be alpha all the time with this dominant body language and all, just mess around a bit. Go through a mall and see all those people walking around? Some rush, some aren't that much in a hurry, but they have something in common: They are BORED. Put your inner smile on, unleash you inner child and have some fun.

The world is all yours. Every moment is an opportunity, a chance to be happy. SHINE!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Dreamer

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You're such a cool guy Mister Moh :)

That's obviously what it is all about !

Are you from France ?
 

Al Moh.

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Nope, I'm from Germany. What made you think I was from France?
 

slaog

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Sehr gut. Meine Freundin ist Deutsch. :up:

Al Moh. said:
It's true, as you feel, she shall feel but this is too limited. We should make everyone feel great!

The surest sign that you are a Don Juan is fun. Who is this guy, unleashing all his wit, his social proof, his sexuality, everything on a woman,

Indeed. Fun guys get girls. Make them feel good and they'll want more of that good feeling.
 

The Dreamer

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No I was just wondering so in case you were a compatriot we could have met in France.

But nice work bro and I love the way you think ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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