"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get the positive Energy in :)

Al Moh.

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So there have been some complains lately about people bringing in negative energy to this board.

Well, guys, you know what, I LIKE negative energy because it's so challenging. It's a chance to combat it with positive energy :)

It's true, as you feel, she shall feel but this is too limited. We should make everyone feel great!

The surest sign that you are a Don Juan is fun. Who is this guy, unleashing all his wit, his social proof, his sexuality, everything on a woman, spending time to seduce her, succeeding in the end maybe, just to say: "Wooooooooooooowww. I did it, thank god this is over. I seduced her, I'm such a Don Juan. So let's take some time off now and do something fun for a change..."

The Don Juan has fun no matter what, even if he doesn't get the girl. The Don Juan is funny, he makes others laugh, he even makes himself laugh and have fun. I love people who can laugh about themselves and I am one of those people too, because on my path through this world I seriously do some stupid stuff from time to time.

Why not shine a little? Get up from your chair, people, stretch out, breath deep, jump around. Go party eben if there is no "reason" to celebrate. Actually there is always a reason: To have fun!

You don't have to be alpha all the time with this dominant body language and all, just mess around a bit. Go through a mall and see all those people walking around? Some rush, some aren't that much in a hurry, but they have something in common: They are BORED. Put your inner smile on, unleash you inner child and have some fun.

The world is all yours. Every moment is an opportunity, a chance to be happy. SHINE!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're such a cool guy Mister Moh :)

That's obviously what it is all about !

Are you from France ?
 

Al Moh.

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Nope, I'm from Germany. What made you think I was from France?
 

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Sehr gut. Meine Freundin ist Deutsch. :up:

Al Moh. said:
It's true, as you feel, she shall feel but this is too limited. We should make everyone feel great!

The surest sign that you are a Don Juan is fun. Who is this guy, unleashing all his wit, his social proof, his sexuality, everything on a woman,

Indeed. Fun guys get girls. Make them feel good and they'll want more of that good feeling.
 

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No I was just wondering so in case you were a compatriot we could have met in France.

But nice work bro and I love the way you think ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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