"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Digitz

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I know its possible to sleep deeper and only have to sleep for a limited time to get the same real amount of sleep which you get with 8 or more hours.

Lacrosse is starting and between school, work and sports my sleep is definately lacking. I usually get to bed around 11:30 and wake up at 6. Its not so bad but im still wondering if this is possible. Anyone got any techniques?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Limit your sleep schedule to consistant times. Meaning, go to sleep at 12 AM midnight every day, wake up at a 6 AM every day, 7 days a week. Your body will be able to predict how long you'll be sleeping, and limit the number of 'sleep sets' it does. Also, your psychology and physiology will also gradually get used to dealing with less hours of sleep. If you have trouble keeping your sleep schedule, keep two alarms and put them on the other side of the room from your bed so that you have to stand up and walk over there to turn them off.

Unless you're some sort of genetic freak, get a minimum of 6 hours of sleep a night. Consistency is key.
 

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Originally posted by Sleepless
Limit your sleep schedule to consistant times. Meaning, go to sleep at 12 AM midnight every day, wake up at a 6 AM every day, 7 days a week. Your body will be able to predict how long you'll be sleeping, and limit the number of 'sleep sets' it does. Also, your psychology and physiology will also gradually get used to dealing with less hours of sleep. If you have trouble keeping your sleep schedule, keep two alarms and put them on the other side of the room from your bed so that you have to stand up and walk over there to turn them off.

Unless you're some sort of genetic freak, get a minimum of 6 hours of sleep a night. Consistency is key.
Our resident sleep expert has spoken! :D

Mr. Mystery
 

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I had way better sleep when I was taking ZMA and it was due to the magnesium in it. So you could go to ur drugstore and pick up a magnesium supplement and try that out.
 
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