"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Get some female friends!!!

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Matt Rogers

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If you are at all uncomfortable talking to the opposite sex or interacting with them then I seriously recommend you get some female friends (preferably girls you are not attracted to or you will screw it up and fall in love with them).

I have been living in halls this year at uni with four girls and three other guys, and talk to the girls loads in the kitchen and hang out with them. I find without any need to impress girls and having no interest in them I just mess around with them, say arrogant and sexist things for the hell of it, and make awful sexual innuendos.
I also get to talk to them and see how their brains work. The best thing though is that they try and set me up with all their girl friends.

Having been at an all boy boarding school and not having an awful lot of luck with girls in my first two years at university, spending time with these girls has done wonders for my confidence, conversational abilities, and general comfort and ease around women. Plus I am sure I am now giving off the aura that I am comfortable with women and confident-as I have been noting much more positive reactions from women recently
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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