"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get Over Fear of Rejection... NOW!

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Get Over the Fear of Rejection

I used to be the guy who would see a cute girl across the room and want to talk to her, but I would feel that twinge of pain in my stomach. I was scared of rejection. This simple emotion held me back for a long time from talking to some hot pieces of ass. Then I found out about a very simple and easy formula to never feeling this fear again. It is a 1 step formula. Are you ready? Here we go...

Ok firstly watch this video:

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=626237825122471772&q=richard+bandler


Now you must follow Richard's instructions closely or this will not work. Go to a comfortable spot, maybe your bed or a nice chair. Relax. And rehearse mentally what Richard says to do. The hardest part for me really, was getting a good mental experience of my fear. The stronger you can feel the emotions the better. I imagined that I just saw a girl that I wanted to talk to and I was going to approach. This served up a nice imagined experience of fear. Then I moved it outside of myself, spun it around et cetera.

It works, it may just take a few tries. This won't give you the motivation to go approach etc. but it will get rid of a huge barrier that was holding you back. After I did this I was able to go approach fearlessly. I have some other techniques for the approach but they are beside the point of this post...



All my best,
-drew
www.seductionbb.com
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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