"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get Over Fear of Rejection... NOW!

sbb_drew

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Get Over the Fear of Rejection

I used to be the guy who would see a cute girl across the room and want to talk to her, but I would feel that twinge of pain in my stomach. I was scared of rejection. This simple emotion held me back for a long time from talking to some hot pieces of ass. Then I found out about a very simple and easy formula to never feeling this fear again. It is a 1 step formula. Are you ready? Here we go...

Ok firstly watch this video:

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=626237825122471772&q=richard+bandler


Now you must follow Richard's instructions closely or this will not work. Go to a comfortable spot, maybe your bed or a nice chair. Relax. And rehearse mentally what Richard says to do. The hardest part for me really, was getting a good mental experience of my fear. The stronger you can feel the emotions the better. I imagined that I just saw a girl that I wanted to talk to and I was going to approach. This served up a nice imagined experience of fear. Then I moved it outside of myself, spun it around et cetera.

It works, it may just take a few tries. This won't give you the motivation to go approach etc. but it will get rid of a huge barrier that was holding you back. After I did this I was able to go approach fearlessly. I have some other techniques for the approach but they are beside the point of this post...



All my best,
-drew
www.seductionbb.com
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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