"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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get oppurtunities daily, but something's just not right

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hi guys,
I happen to be a graduate student. There is unlimited supply of hotties all day everyday on campus. But I have a few problems unlike other students on campus:
1. Not an underGrad:box:
2. Dont live in dorms:box:
3. Not a rich Frat guy driving around in a Porche:box:
4. Most of the girls are really hot n kinda out of my league...:box:

I have really good ideas on carrying ON a conversation...BUT i have problems Opening the set...usually go for single girls sitting around campus... and they usually make excuses like "i have to study...or i have a test..."...i m getting pretty pissed off... i wanna get sex...but dont mind just hanging out with a cute girl..

btw, i'd rate my looks to be like 7/10

bascially, can u suggest some unique openers... after picturing the whole situation...i'd be really grateful and will post the results after trying...:up:
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So basically you're ****ed then, especially if you count 1,2,3,5.
 

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oh crap ...can u just ignore that, i edited it anyway
 

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First off, you seem pretty confused...4 comes before 5.
Second off, excuses 1, 2, and 3 are your own disbeliefs.
Third off, try to get advice from a dating coach on that campus...you're not alone; 99.9% of men don't understand women, and i'm well in that number!
Finally, make it seem like you're with more women (hot included) than what you really have. Fake it till you make it.

Hope this helps...
 

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well thats some motivation...thanks... i guess i should go with a situational opener or that "Say Something...Anything" technique lol...and carry it on with something interesting to discuss...and neg hit wherever applicable...guess this shud work...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
 

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Rex Man said:
It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
sweet... lets roll!:woo:
 
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