"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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get oppurtunities daily, but something's just not right

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hi guys,
I happen to be a graduate student. There is unlimited supply of hotties all day everyday on campus. But I have a few problems unlike other students on campus:
1. Not an underGrad:box:
2. Dont live in dorms:box:
3. Not a rich Frat guy driving around in a Porche:box:
4. Most of the girls are really hot n kinda out of my league...:box:

I have really good ideas on carrying ON a conversation...BUT i have problems Opening the set...usually go for single girls sitting around campus... and they usually make excuses like "i have to study...or i have a test..."...i m getting pretty pissed off... i wanna get sex...but dont mind just hanging out with a cute girl..

btw, i'd rate my looks to be like 7/10

bascially, can u suggest some unique openers... after picturing the whole situation...i'd be really grateful and will post the results after trying...:up:
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So basically you're ****ed then, especially if you count 1,2,3,5.
 
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oh crap ...can u just ignore that, i edited it anyway
 
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First off, you seem pretty confused...4 comes before 5.
Second off, excuses 1, 2, and 3 are your own disbeliefs.
Third off, try to get advice from a dating coach on that campus...you're not alone; 99.9% of men don't understand women, and i'm well in that number!
Finally, make it seem like you're with more women (hot included) than what you really have. Fake it till you make it.

Hope this helps...
 
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well thats some motivation...thanks... i guess i should go with a situational opener or that "Say Something...Anything" technique lol...and carry it on with something interesting to discuss...and neg hit wherever applicable...guess this shud work...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
 
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Rex Man said:
It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
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sweet... lets roll!:woo:
 
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