"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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get oppurtunities daily, but something's just not right

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hi guys,
I happen to be a graduate student. There is unlimited supply of hotties all day everyday on campus. But I have a few problems unlike other students on campus:
1. Not an underGrad:box:
2. Dont live in dorms:box:
3. Not a rich Frat guy driving around in a Porche:box:
4. Most of the girls are really hot n kinda out of my league...:box:

I have really good ideas on carrying ON a conversation...BUT i have problems Opening the set...usually go for single girls sitting around campus... and they usually make excuses like "i have to study...or i have a test..."...i m getting pretty pissed off... i wanna get sex...but dont mind just hanging out with a cute girl..

btw, i'd rate my looks to be like 7/10

bascially, can u suggest some unique openers... after picturing the whole situation...i'd be really grateful and will post the results after trying...:up:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So basically you're ****ed then, especially if you count 1,2,3,5.
 
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oh crap ...can u just ignore that, i edited it anyway
 
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First off, you seem pretty confused...4 comes before 5.
Second off, excuses 1, 2, and 3 are your own disbeliefs.
Third off, try to get advice from a dating coach on that campus...you're not alone; 99.9% of men don't understand women, and i'm well in that number!
Finally, make it seem like you're with more women (hot included) than what you really have. Fake it till you make it.

Hope this helps...
 
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well thats some motivation...thanks... i guess i should go with a situational opener or that "Say Something...Anything" technique lol...and carry it on with something interesting to discuss...and neg hit wherever applicable...guess this shud work...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
 
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Rex Man said:
It's not difficult, man. Don't overthink. Use a situational. Use the truth. Doesn't matter.

rsaini: Hey, can I talk to you for a second?/Walk with you for a second? etc.

HB:um....ok.

rsaini: I like the (....)

HB: thank you!

R: I didn't know people still wore those! (neg)

HB:.....

R: anyways I'm Rsaini.....you?

HB: HB

There's a start! Go!
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sweet... lets roll!:woo:
 
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