"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get off the damn couch!

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Ok.It's 1:30 in the morning but tonight was badass and I have to share this story.So I go out tonight, sitting at the bar, beautiful brunette comes in and asks me "anybody sitting here".I was waiting for my friends to show, and chat this little cutie up.Now mind you, I do not go out very often, as I am 33 and not into being a barfly fratdaddy like I was back in the day.Anyhow, me and this chick hang out all night, number close at the end of the night.I leave, walk outside, and it's raining hard as $$*#.My car is across the street in another lot, and I see these two hot chicks that valeted (sp?) the car.Anyhow I ask if they could take me across the street to my car since it is raining.These are two incredibly beautiful Persians.We drive across the street, and the chick gives me $20 to help pay to get the boot off.lol. I hand her my card and tell her I will pay her back with dinner.My point.....I normally sit home, and keep to myself.Why you ask? Because after an enormous amount of bad experiences, etc, I normally do things I enjoy.Golf,xbox,etc.An ex screwed me up, and for years I let it define me.No more.The reality is boys, all you have to do, is get.off.the.couch.Quit fapping it to porn, it makes you complacent.Go out there and chat up some trim.It truly is numbers.I hope this encourages some of you.It has encouraged me.Happy hunting bros-:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So... If I'm laying on "the damn bed", and dont even have "a damn couch", does this not apply? GTG?

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Porn is bad news.

But back to what I think the OP is getting at...

Ultimately, in this game, you only have to TRY. That's it.

It's snowing really heavily here right now. I've been texting this chick talking about pointless stuff like shoveling snow. Anyway, she's stuck home also because of the storm. She invited me to her apartment tonight for dinner and a movie :).

Anyway, good job OP. Keep it up.
 
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