"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get off the damn couch!

Wingedsig

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Ok.It's 1:30 in the morning but tonight was badass and I have to share this story.So I go out tonight, sitting at the bar, beautiful brunette comes in and asks me "anybody sitting here".I was waiting for my friends to show, and chat this little cutie up.Now mind you, I do not go out very often, as I am 33 and not into being a barfly fratdaddy like I was back in the day.Anyhow, me and this chick hang out all night, number close at the end of the night.I leave, walk outside, and it's raining hard as $$*#.My car is across the street in another lot, and I see these two hot chicks that valeted (sp?) the car.Anyhow I ask if they could take me across the street to my car since it is raining.These are two incredibly beautiful Persians.We drive across the street, and the chick gives me $20 to help pay to get the boot off.lol. I hand her my card and tell her I will pay her back with dinner.My point.....I normally sit home, and keep to myself.Why you ask? Because after an enormous amount of bad experiences, etc, I normally do things I enjoy.Golf,xbox,etc.An ex screwed me up, and for years I let it define me.No more.The reality is boys, all you have to do, is get.off.the.couch.Quit fapping it to porn, it makes you complacent.Go out there and chat up some trim.It truly is numbers.I hope this encourages some of you.It has encouraged me.Happy hunting bros-:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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floydb25

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So... If I'm laying on "the damn bed", and dont even have "a damn couch", does this not apply? GTG?

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Mike32ct

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Porn is bad news.

But back to what I think the OP is getting at...

Ultimately, in this game, you only have to TRY. That's it.

It's snowing really heavily here right now. I've been texting this chick talking about pointless stuff like shoveling snow. Anyway, she's stuck home also because of the storm. She invited me to her apartment tonight for dinner and a movie :).

Anyway, good job OP. Keep it up.
 
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