"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jon3947

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I met a girl at a popular local dance last Sat. night, we danced for about ten minutes and we didnt talk much, There was alot of kino while dancing

She goes to a different school, and I added her as a friend on facebook

She just recently changed her status from "in a relationship" to "single" about two days after we became friends.

Also one of her friends that we were dancing with "liked" us becoming facebook friends.

I want to know how to get the number from here and how to escalate, and possibly go out with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AlexLefty

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Simply send her a message/write on her wall?
Say something like, 'hey its jon9348, i noticed i never got your number from that hot dance party last week. so how about it, lets get your number'
adding in like a smiley face or something

honestly, if you're freaked out about sending this message, can you imagine how nervous you'll be if you'll have to talk to her in person, or worse, on the phone?

hope that helps
 

jon3947

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Thanks, Im just trying not to sound too desperate, I have a history of AFCism when a girl shows interest
 

CaptainJ

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Say something like, 'hey its jon9348, i noticed i never got your number from that hot da- wait wha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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