"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jon3947

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I met a girl at a popular local dance last Sat. night, we danced for about ten minutes and we didnt talk much, There was alot of kino while dancing

She goes to a different school, and I added her as a friend on facebook

She just recently changed her status from "in a relationship" to "single" about two days after we became friends.

Also one of her friends that we were dancing with "liked" us becoming facebook friends.

I want to know how to get the number from here and how to escalate, and possibly go out with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AlexLefty

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Simply send her a message/write on her wall?
Say something like, 'hey its jon9348, i noticed i never got your number from that hot dance party last week. so how about it, lets get your number'
adding in like a smiley face or something

honestly, if you're freaked out about sending this message, can you imagine how nervous you'll be if you'll have to talk to her in person, or worse, on the phone?

hope that helps
 

jon3947

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Thanks, Im just trying not to sound too desperate, I have a history of AFCism when a girl shows interest
 

CaptainJ

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Say something like, 'hey its jon9348, i noticed i never got your number from that hot da- wait wha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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