"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get mind off sex?

Remulak

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How do you get your mind off sex when talking to a girl? Jesus, I don't know what's wrong with me I feel like such a scumbag sometimes. I'll be talking to a girl and I'll try and discreetly look at her boobs or a55. I can't friggin help it. I know it's natural and everything but I just don't want to come across as a pig. I try to play it cool and be aloof but I just wanna rail them right then and there.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ougoalie

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Well to get your mind off that stuff just concentrate on the conversation your having with her. Thats what I do. I very rarely think about sex when Im having a casual conversation with a girl maybe Im wierd don't know but there is a time and place for that stuff you know.

And don't look at her body parts thats just pretty rude in general. Just look at her face thats all I do really. Sometimes I check her out if she is decent but she doesn't ever see me do it.

Its all about your state of mind and concentration does help quite a bit!
 

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as soon as you think of removing her panties with your teeth, think of looking up from those panties and seeing your mother or grandmother instead of her. That will change the situation...probably in your favor.

You see what i'm getting at here?
 

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I don't think there is anything wrong with it, as long as you don't stare, and it doesn't make you nervous.

In fact, the gunwitch method focuses on this "sexual" state.
 

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I think you should look that a thread where some dude posted a link to huge ugly hairy vaginas. Man. That's how I think of most girls when I see them, I feel more confident around them and I make fun of them. They're not your little sisters, or your mothers. They're men with tits.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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