This is something that just bugs me so much. I'm 21 and go to college but its a commuter college so i live with my parents. I havent been able to do anything much because i lacked a lot of confidence. It's still not that good but it's getting a bit better maybe. Since i do not have an apartment that restricts everything right? I don't even bother asking woman out because I still live in my parent's place.
I do not have a job currently but definitely will look soon. Another thing that bugs me is my parents treat me like a kid. My mother keeps saying stay home you don't have any money. My dad is sort of like her too because he worries so much. Their the type of people who will asks where you're going and even if I'm out to 2am, they call my phone and tell me to go home quickly because there's so many bad people outside. Gosh, Im 21 already and they still do this.
My mother even said when you get married, we should buy a house and have 2 floors. One floor with her and dad and the other floor me and my wife. Are you kidding me? These are the type of people that I just despise because they want to control my life even though they say we ALLOW you to do what you want. Allow?... Isn't that a right of mine? They are one of the main reasons why my life has been bummed right now. My mother keeps saying go move out, you're going to have problems like mice and nobody doing your laundry. She just wants me to be a mama's boy.
If i can get a job soon, I would assume everyone here thinks it's best for me to get my own apartment right? I never "lived" if that's the right term for it. I have been really down this whole time because I don't feel like i have anythign to live for. I want to just everyday come to my own place watch the game with a friend of mine on a wednesday night and... have friends over or get some woman and have a place to bring them home to.I just can't approach women because of the fact that I don't have my own place. I just say to myself why GAME when i don't have my place for privacy.
Would everyone agree moving out is a plus? I see no negative sides to it as long as I can pay the bills right? Are there any guys here who are in a relationship or date a lot but still live in their parent's home or family member place? If yes, how do look for fun really? How old are you?
I have a lot of guy friends who are my age and all live in the parent's place and have NO thoughts whatsoever to move out. They get no women at all and all even get nervous when talking to a girl whether their hot or not. I just don't want this to happen to me.
Comments woudl be really appreciated?
I do not have a job currently but definitely will look soon. Another thing that bugs me is my parents treat me like a kid. My mother keeps saying stay home you don't have any money. My dad is sort of like her too because he worries so much. Their the type of people who will asks where you're going and even if I'm out to 2am, they call my phone and tell me to go home quickly because there's so many bad people outside. Gosh, Im 21 already and they still do this.
My mother even said when you get married, we should buy a house and have 2 floors. One floor with her and dad and the other floor me and my wife. Are you kidding me? These are the type of people that I just despise because they want to control my life even though they say we ALLOW you to do what you want. Allow?... Isn't that a right of mine? They are one of the main reasons why my life has been bummed right now. My mother keeps saying go move out, you're going to have problems like mice and nobody doing your laundry. She just wants me to be a mama's boy.
If i can get a job soon, I would assume everyone here thinks it's best for me to get my own apartment right? I never "lived" if that's the right term for it. I have been really down this whole time because I don't feel like i have anythign to live for. I want to just everyday come to my own place watch the game with a friend of mine on a wednesday night and... have friends over or get some woman and have a place to bring them home to.I just can't approach women because of the fact that I don't have my own place. I just say to myself why GAME when i don't have my place for privacy.
Would everyone agree moving out is a plus? I see no negative sides to it as long as I can pay the bills right? Are there any guys here who are in a relationship or date a lot but still live in their parent's home or family member place? If yes, how do look for fun really? How old are you?
I have a lot of guy friends who are my age and all live in the parent's place and have NO thoughts whatsoever to move out. They get no women at all and all even get nervous when talking to a girl whether their hot or not. I just don't want this to happen to me.
Comments woudl be really appreciated?