"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Right, Some girl i was seeing has just ended it with me because i'm to "possessive" and says it has put her off me. We have been seeing each other for around 3 months. How can i get her to get those feelings back from when we first met? There must be a way round this or something i can do? Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can't I don't think. Unless you change your ways and stop smothering her to death and being possessive. Even then its a case of does a leopard really change its spots?
 
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Will900 said:
Right, Some girl i was seeing has just ended it with me because i'm to "possessive" and says it has put her off me. We have been seeing each other for around 3 months. How can i get her to get those feelings back from when we first met? There must be a way round this or something i can do? Thanks
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There's not enough information here.



It's possible she's found another guy,but assuming she hasn't,answer a few questions...


For one,you said that she just recently ended things with you.


Well,how was her behavior prior to the breakup,like 2 or 3 weeks before the split? And what did she say when you two split? Did she say she needed "space",or just tell you she didn't want to be with you anymore?



And MORE IMPORTANTLY,how are things with you two RIGHT NOW?


Does she talk to you every now and then,or did she just end things and disappear?



If she still speaks with you,you might have a chance at reversing this,but if she just ended things and you haven't heard from her in a while,it's probably done with.




Try to answer ALL these questions,especially the one about her behavior leading up to the breakup.


Edit: At the moment,DO NOT CONTACT HER.



There's a reason WHY the split-up happened,and THAT HAS TO BE ADDRESSED FIRST.



If you get back in touch with her while that reason exist,you'll just make things worse.
 
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Will900 said:
should i contact her? Or wait till she decides to contact me?
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Initiate contact with her, if you are going too, but I think Igetit is spot on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Treat her with indifference.
Like don't let her see your needy/possessive emotions.

She'll start to see what she liked about you in the beginning of yalls relationship, without the needy side interfering.
 
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