"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get her friends to like you!!

Whenever you're around her and her friends divide the time spent looking at everyone equally, make sure everyone is laughing, dont try to pour it all on the one girl you're going after. If you get her girlfriends to like you, they'll talk about you to her when you're not there. The constant reminder of her friends telling her that you're funny, cute, real nice, ect ect goes a long way, it helps you out because you dont have to try and do all that work yourself. Plus it helps you not look like you're pushing those qualities to hard yourself, you've got someone else, someone who she already trusts telling her these things. She'll believe her friends before she believes you.

Which can also flip the script, never piss off her friends, and never piss off her, because girls will tell her that, "Hes an *******. What are you doing with him. you can do much better." She'll listen to that.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you a Court Jesters? What do I care if her friends don’t like me am I supposed to be a Clown for everyone? If she prefers the company or advice of her friends to mine, then she can f**k off.
It makes me sick the way you guys run around like nutless puppy dogs.
 
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lolol you misunderstand what im trying to say, I mean you have to present yourself to them as if you're the King of men. That way when you're not around they'll talk good things about you to her, it helps you out when you're trying to get into a relationship with the girl
 
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This is good advice. Anything to get em talking about you is good.


Even if the friend is pissed though, she'll talk about you. That's better then nothing, so getting her friend pissed is better then never saying a word to her friend.

Edmond gave the typical bullsh!t sosuave advice that DOES NOT help you with the chicks. I've learned this from experience. Apparently not doing anything and thinking your special makes you happier, sure it may but it doesn't get the girls talking about you.
 
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I see what you guys are saying, but if she likes you she will crawl over the bodies of her dying fat and ugly friends to meet you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shyt i'll even flirt with her friends right infront of her lolol jealousy is a powerful tool if you use it correctly and dont abuse it
 
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