"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get her friends first

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Get her friends to like you!!

Whenever you're around her and her friends divide the time spent looking at everyone equally, make sure everyone is laughing, dont try to pour it all on the one girl you're going after. If you get her girlfriends to like you, they'll talk about you to her when you're not there. The constant reminder of her friends telling her that you're funny, cute, real nice, ect ect goes a long way, it helps you out because you dont have to try and do all that work yourself. Plus it helps you not look like you're pushing those qualities to hard yourself, you've got someone else, someone who she already trusts telling her these things. She'll believe her friends before she believes you.

Which can also flip the script, never piss off her friends, and never piss off her, because girls will tell her that, "Hes an *******. What are you doing with him. you can do much better." She'll listen to that.

Hope this helps
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are you a Court Jesters? What do I care if her friends don’t like me am I supposed to be a Clown for everyone? If she prefers the company or advice of her friends to mine, then she can f**k off.
It makes me sick the way you guys run around like nutless puppy dogs.
 
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lolol you misunderstand what im trying to say, I mean you have to present yourself to them as if you're the King of men. That way when you're not around they'll talk good things about you to her, it helps you out when you're trying to get into a relationship with the girl
 
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This is good advice. Anything to get em talking about you is good.


Even if the friend is pissed though, she'll talk about you. That's better then nothing, so getting her friend pissed is better then never saying a word to her friend.

Edmond gave the typical bullsh!t sosuave advice that DOES NOT help you with the chicks. I've learned this from experience. Apparently not doing anything and thinking your special makes you happier, sure it may but it doesn't get the girls talking about you.
 
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I see what you guys are saying, but if she likes you she will crawl over the bodies of her dying fat and ugly friends to meet you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shyt i'll even flirt with her friends right infront of her lolol jealousy is a powerful tool if you use it correctly and dont abuse it
 
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