"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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brian123

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Met this girl out fri night, I thought she was cute but I initially was just friendly with her b/c I thought she was with this guy (maybe even married) turns out she is just friends with him and she is single. She might have shown some interest in me because a group of us were heading out to a bar and I was going to meet up with people at another one, but she was fairly adament about me going with them to the bar.

I hung out with her and a few other people for a bit, and expected to see her sat when she hung out with a mutual friend of ours who I know. She never saw him sat. Should I ask my buddy for her # and just send her a txt asking her to get together some time? Or should I just bide my time and wait to see her again naturally.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mtlwlu

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wait 100%, getting her number like that seems kinda creepy to me in MHO. Wait, work your own magic and get the results all by yourself.
 

brian123

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mtlwlu said:
wait 100%, getting her number like that seems kinda creepy to me in MHO. Wait, work your own magic and get the results all by yourself.
Good advice. I was pretty sure I could have gotten in the other night when we were hanging out, but I figured Id play it cool and get it when I hung out with her the next day.
 
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