"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Get girl's number through friend

brian123

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Met this girl out fri night, I thought she was cute but I initially was just friendly with her b/c I thought she was with this guy (maybe even married) turns out she is just friends with him and she is single. She might have shown some interest in me because a group of us were heading out to a bar and I was going to meet up with people at another one, but she was fairly adament about me going with them to the bar.

I hung out with her and a few other people for a bit, and expected to see her sat when she hung out with a mutual friend of ours who I know. She never saw him sat. Should I ask my buddy for her # and just send her a txt asking her to get together some time? Or should I just bide my time and wait to see her again naturally.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mtlwlu

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wait 100%, getting her number like that seems kinda creepy to me in MHO. Wait, work your own magic and get the results all by yourself.
 

brian123

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mtlwlu said:
wait 100%, getting her number like that seems kinda creepy to me in MHO. Wait, work your own magic and get the results all by yourself.
Good advice. I was pretty sure I could have gotten in the other night when we were hanging out, but I figured Id play it cool and get it when I hung out with her the next day.
 
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