Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Get fit with a FRIEND!

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For a few weeks now I have been running, and doing training with my friend, (he isn't a DJ), we both decided that we wanted to get more in shape (well we are not violently overweight or anything, we just wanted to get fitter)...

Training with a friend gives you somebody to talk to about getting fit, somebody to share goals and achievements with, someone to motivate you and push you... Somebody to go through the whole damn thing WITH you... So if you have any mates wanting to get in form, get talking to them and start training...

This is a better way to get in shape... not physically easier... but MENTALLY easier... and sometimes that can be the most important thing of all.

Best Regards,
SweetTooth
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not only are you able to push eachother, but you can hold eachother accountable for showing up. That way, if you skip a workout, then you're letting your friend down.

By the way...

Competition breeds the best results.
 

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having a guy with you at the gym is awesome, not only have you got a spotter but you can't leave 'til he does, so more sets etc ;)
 

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More sets aren't always better...


Thats why you lift together, you generally finish at the same time.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
More sets aren't always better...


Thats why you lift together, you generally finish at the same time.
ah yeah in general but when I go on my own I basically do 3 sets of bench, a set of skullcrushers and a set of shoulder presses and I'm off home >.>
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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Hm.

My "chest" day looks like

Bench: 5x5
Incline DBs: 3x8
Dips: 3x8

Then I scram.


In the end, get a friend.:) Creative huh?
 

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well if I do my full push day it'd be something like:

3 sets bench
3 sets incline bench
3 sets decline dumbells

3 sets shoulder press
3 sets forward raises

3 sets tricep press
3 sets skullcrushers


I fit that into about 40 minutes too :)
 

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howardalex said:
well if I do my full push day it'd be something like:

3 sets bench
3 sets incline bench
3 sets decline dumbells

3 sets shoulder press
3 sets forward raises

3 sets tricep press
3 sets skullcrushers


I fit that into about 40 minutes too :)
Don't believe in proper warmups, eh?
 

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tbh I don't bother with them, I know I should 'cos I do kickboxing and jiu jitsu and I can't be helping my flexibility by not stretching around weight workouts, I just never get round to it

however, I'm gonna start doing them with my new split, I figure it's about bloody time lol
 

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Warmups aren't just stretching.


It's building up to your work sets...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you'll get much more done if you take the time to warm up.
 

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Less likely to rip your muscle from the tendon as well lol
 
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