"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
get drunk **** btcvhes
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
is the drunk posts becoming a regular thing around here?
Looks like it.irocknike23 said:
I kind of find it counter productive as when you are too drunk you sometimes have an issue of getting it up. Getting a bit buzzed however; better idea along with allowing you to drive safer and just having the calmness if approach gives you anxiety. Also doesn't make you appear hammered if you go in for a kiss later on in the night.
I totally agree that it makes much more sense to sarge sober but.... sarging drunk is so much fun!!! :rockon:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Solomon
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irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
when your out and about having fun and drunk with your friends and see pretty females why would you feel the need to go to this forum and tell a bunch of strange dudes about it..............?
Zanbato
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SoSuave666
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When I first read the title, I thought you meant "Just get drunk. The hell with b$tches" lol.
Some nights, that's not a bad idea either
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http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_akLHpeO7qyA/TK2wzEHK0MI/AAAAAAAACsk/dLgx5FUFXoM/s1600/alcohol+-+helping+nerds+and+fat+chicks+score.jpgSolomon said:Pics or it didn't happen
SoSuave666
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I went straight to the bar upon arrival and ordered a couple beers for myself. I walked up to a two-set with my beers and started chatting them up about the place. I told them I'd never been there before (lie) and wondered why it was so crowded blah blah blah. They seemed pretty interested but asked why I had two beers. I told them I was holding one for my buddy who should be back any second.
We continued to chat and I kept them pretty interested, but I looked down at my main targets hand and blammo, she had a ring. I moved my attention to her less attractive, but still bangable friend. She was showing interest so I talked her up about her work, and she was pretty impressed with my status as well. She asked if my bud was ever coming back (it had been 10 minutes) and I told her he probably moved on with our group of friends.
She wasn't too excited about staying and conversing much after that, so I kindly showed myself the door. On the way out of the bar I saw a couple of acquaintances from HS. They both looked good and it was an easy way to show off myself with some good looking girls in front of people who may not know me. So, easy transition into game mode as I didn't really ever talk to them but we knew each other.
So we walked around a bit and eventually went to another bar. As I was talking to one of them another girl came up to the bar to order a drink. She was giving me the eye while I was talking to my friend, so I decided to talk to her. My friend actually turned out to be a decent wing-woman, talking me up and playing cool. So I moved on with the new girl and got her out for a smoke. She was probably an 8 or so, so I was cised to talk her up. It was getting close to last call so we decided to get a cabbie together. She told me she wasn't going to come home with me but just wanted to share a cab.
So she was giving me huge IOIs and kinoing me and sh!t, so I was like fvck it I'll go for it. I laid a kiss on her in the cab and she was real receptive. She got out of the car when I got out and came up to my condo with me. My room for the next couple of hours or so became a porn studio. I dropped her off in the morning and watched the skins game in the afternoon. All in all a pretty good weekend.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stagger Lee
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When the girl at the other bar saw you with friends and best of all female friends, I think the social proof made her more receptive. She had to be attracted to you anyway but you still need th status for her to be receptive. Still that was very good work and impressive that you closed the deal with her.