"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At first, whenever i find a new target girl. I'm all excited to see how the adventure will unfold. Ill do all i can to get the girl and when i know its in the bag, I strike.

However, lets say i hookup with the girl on monday, by next monday I'll usually be bored of her.

For example. Last week i hooked up with one of the hottest girls in my dorm building. Shes a 10 easily. Shes not a slut either so this made the adventure a little tougher. All my friends would talk about her and her hotness while I would be sitting in the back, plotting everything out.

So I finally get the girl. The first day we just make out and feel each other up. As the week unfolds we have done everything. I feel like the man for about a week, then i start to notice every little unattractive feature of the girl.

She can be a complte 10, and ill notice her @ss isnt as nice as id like it to be, or she has ugly habits, etc. And i lose interest. The girls then says im acting shady about something and the hookup ends.

Why does this always happen? Why do I get tired and bored of the girl really easily? I even catch myself making out with her and at the same time rolling my eyes in a 'ughh' attitude.

I notice the beauty of the girl at first and about a week or two later, i notice every ugly detail, and I CANT STOP THINKING OF THEM and i lose interest and find another girl, just to repeat the process..WHY!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HAHAHA..i knew that would be said..

OTHER than that..why haha :crackup:
 
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That's just your instincts protecting you. Better be bored/sick of her now than six months later. Maybe you deserve better than being tied down with a chick you liked only because of her hotness. It's OKAY to have high standards, you know. That's why they call it a standard. Would you rather be okay with girls like these, or be having fun with a cool chick you really like?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are judging the girl soly based on her looks... I think that is the problem.

Think about it... You spend 30min-1hr having sex with her BEAUTIIIIFUL body/face etc..

You proboly spend 3-4 hrs/date talking to her and hanging out. Now not to be judgmental or anything but most HOT girls are not very interesting... They dont have to be..., because they get so much attention that they can pretty much sit there and observe make coupla comments etc. When the attention is gone and they get into a relationship than they dont have anything to offer but looks which fade away pretty quickly. This is why they say " No matter how good she looks, someone out there is tired of flucking her".


IMO you need to go for girls that look descant but can challenge your mind in conversation which will make it more interesting. Many hot girls are not smart enough to argue their point, or get their point across. If you say that Earth is the biggest planet in the universe they will actually believe it.... I am not saying that there are not smart hot girls around...However,they are rare because the are used to being treated so good that they dont have to rely on their brains. This is why so many people think of "blondes" as dumb.

FYI i am tired as i have only had 3 hrs of sleep so i proll y have many mistakes in this long essay that i wrote.
 
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but heres the thing...i do go for the girls that i really want. i dont know hy but i am very critical of a girl i choose to like. not just her looks but her mannerisms, personality, humor, etc.

Actually. most of the time i like girls that i think are really beautiful but my fridnds say "her?! shes ok i guess' but to me shed be really pretty. Or id get a girl that they , including myself. see as "hot" ..i still get tired of them. its not just a 'beauty fades' thing,

I dont get sick of alll the girls easily, just 95% lol. the other 5% i still talk to and have a relationship with them that i value...i need more of these 5%-ers!
 
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illmatic1005 said:
At first, whenever i find a new target girl. I'm all excited to see how the adventure will unfold. Ill do all i can to get the girl and when i know its in the bag, I strike.

However, lets say i hookup with the girl on monday, by next monday I'll usually be bored of her.

For example. Last week i hooked up with one of the hottest girls in my dorm building. Shes a 10 easily. Shes not a slut either so this made the adventure a little tougher. All my friends would talk about her and her hotness while I would be sitting in the back, plotting everything out.

So I finally get the girl. The first day we just make out and feel each other up. As the week unfolds we have done everything. I feel like the man for about a week, then i start to notice every little unattractive feature of the girl.

She can be a complte 10, and ill notice her @ss isnt as nice as id like it to be, or she has ugly habits, etc. And i lose interest. The girls then says im acting shady about something and the hookup ends.

Why does this always happen? Why do I get tired and bored of the girl really easily? I even catch myself making out with her and at the same time rolling my eyes in a 'ughh' attitude.

I notice the beauty of the girl at first and about a week or two later, i notice every ugly detail, and I CANT STOP THINKING OF THEM and i lose interest and find another girl, just to repeat the process..WHY!!
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I'm the same way and I really don't know how to fix it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lolol i guess so...just last night i told a girl i had been hooking up with for only a WEEK (easily a 9 or a 10) that i didnt want to hookup anymore. ..and she was biotching and complaining to me and i said i "this is how much i care" and pointed to nothing and said "see theres nothing there, i dont care at all".

i dont mean to be a jerk so i say it with a smile and she walks away saying fine, but laughing like its my loss (when reall yi couldnt care)

and just before my friend said "you ended it with one of the hottest girls and u dont even care. wow"

i dont kno what it is, but i guess its good? lol
 
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Daddy The Pimp said:
You need to connect to girls on deeper level .
Your goal should not be to " HOOKUP " . Your goal should be to find amazing women that you will give value to them , make them happy not only fvck them .
As i said before , deeper level.
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You got that one right Daddy. My relationships are on a spiritual level. I'm not saying be religious, but my passions are spiritual to me.
 
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Basically I rarley like women MORE after the sex..I usually notice something about her or she really starts to annoy me..

My advise is to keep pimping and keep their numbers active for when you wanna bust some nuts...
 
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