"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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get back with girl?

asskickery777

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Hey guys, I was dating this girl like 6 months ago until she mysteriously dumped me. Do u think that it's possible to try to get back with her?

I tried chatting with her through email. Shes being nice to me.

It's not oneitis. Just shes pretty decent, so why not?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hanson

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Why would you want to get back with someone who dumped you. I'd suggest not talking to her at all. I dumped this chick over a week ago cause i didn't want to be in a relationship, and she wouldn't stop calling/messaging me, til finally she said "hey sexy i really wanna **** u why dnt u text me back and we can talk and u can *** for me". thats ****ing desperate. Be sure its what you want, cause i gave her a vulgar text back the next day and we ****ed, now i gotta break up with her again.

so yeah, no contact will probably be your best option if you want her back.
 

themann

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dont bother. just shows that ur second best/desperate/needy and in those whole 6 months u didnt get over her. NEXT
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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asskickery777 said:
It's not oneitis.
Yes it is.

If she's decent, then why not get something exceptional?

Unless of course, you think of yourself as a loser who will never amount to anything. Do you?
 
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