"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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get back with girl?

asskickery777

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Hey guys, I was dating this girl like 6 months ago until she mysteriously dumped me. Do u think that it's possible to try to get back with her?

I tried chatting with her through email. Shes being nice to me.

It's not oneitis. Just shes pretty decent, so why not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hanson

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Why would you want to get back with someone who dumped you. I'd suggest not talking to her at all. I dumped this chick over a week ago cause i didn't want to be in a relationship, and she wouldn't stop calling/messaging me, til finally she said "hey sexy i really wanna **** u why dnt u text me back and we can talk and u can *** for me". thats ****ing desperate. Be sure its what you want, cause i gave her a vulgar text back the next day and we ****ed, now i gotta break up with her again.

so yeah, no contact will probably be your best option if you want her back.
 

themann

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dont bother. just shows that ur second best/desperate/needy and in those whole 6 months u didnt get over her. NEXT
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rhoto

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asskickery777 said:
It's not oneitis.
Yes it is.

If she's decent, then why not get something exceptional?

Unless of course, you think of yourself as a loser who will never amount to anything. Do you?
 
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