"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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get all the chicks attention!

assassin

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You guys have seen this before "wear something that makes you stand out" I can't believe how well it worked.

Anyways, my story..

Being a new DJ, I wanted to get out there and change what the chicks thought of me. I have been long time friends with this one chick who happens to be almost 2 years older than me. I have liked her since I've known her but I have been a nice guy the entire time. Well on Friday nights a lot of my friends get together. We usually just come causual dressed. Anyways I wanted to try something new. I called up my friend and told him to wear a tux. We both wore a tuxedo's. At first it was really awkward, but when the chicks arrived the embarrasment payed off!

There are two chicks that all of my friends want to get with. For the last year the guys and I have been nice guys till I found this site. Anyways I took the advice to stand out and here are the results.

As soon as the two chicks arrived they came and talked to my friend and I completely ignoring the others. They kept asking us why we wore suits and when we refused to tell them they went crazy trying to pry it out of us. One of the chicks made some comment about us being hot. After that we then tried to make them "earn" our attention so we left for a bit. When we came back they were sitting together and told us to come sit next to them. We refused them which left them puzzled.

We had always done everything they said whenever they said it in the past.

After that my friend and I were walking around for a while and when we looked back we caught them both spying on us! All because we took a risk of looking stupid and wearing tuxedos.

Later that night we left. We didn't say bye or anything. We just left them wondering.

Being a first DJ mission for my self I say I did well and built up a lot of confidence. If you guys notice anything I should have done please comment. Thanks for reading.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bunk 040

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Great. In a few years you might be up there with me.
 

Evil-Rom

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Originally posted by Bunk 040
Great. In a few years you might be up there with me.
Oh you adonis you, flash us some of your pearly whites of wisdom.
 

The Loner

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Wow, that's cool.

I would have done just the opposite of what you did even a few days ago. And made a fool of myself. :-D
 
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