"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get a sales job!

TheGambino

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Guys I got a new job next to my study 2.5 months ago, so far it's great! Im a salesman at a luxurious furniture brandstore. It's a great job to develop yourself in all kind of ways. You have to approach new clients all the time when they come in the store and the fun part is that you sell most stuff when you ask random questions and have fun walking true the store asking the clients what their looking for. If you have fun, ask a lot of questions, be interested and know youre products you'll be a great salesman.

Most of the time people make the decision emotionally, if they like you as a salesman they will do it 65% of the time even if their not 100% sure about the product their actually buying.

Besides that it's a great confidence boost, you have to dress well, shave and be on top of your game and looks to be a good salesman. Im sure such a job is great for anyone who wants to develop in presentation and so with the ladies.

I think the job is great for your own winners mindset, confidence and will help you to have fun conversations with the ladies and be succesfull in your carreer later on in almost any kind of other job !

Im happy with my job and I will get the max out of it, going great so far!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dhoulmagus

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I had a job where I called alumni and asked for money. I quit because my boss was bad and I wouldn't let me sale off script.
 

SeymourCake

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I'm currently a cashier at my electronics store. Sometimes they move people out to the floor to become a salesperson. I'll probably become a salesman soon.
 

Bible_Belt

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I've sold vacuum cleaners door to door, stocks, insurance, outdoor signs, real estate foreclosure deals, retirement plans, and mortgages. Almost all of my sales were always to women. Make a woman like you, and she will buy from you.
 

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I was really worried about that grammar until I saw your location...

But yeah working sales will definitely do that for you!

I've found it helps the most with approach anxiety.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mangotot

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Bible_Belt said:
I've sold vacuum cleaners door to door, stocks, insurance, outdoor signs, real estate foreclosure deals, retirement plans, and mortgages. Almost all of my sales were always to women. Make a woman like you, and she will buy from you.
Most men don't buy because they want to out alpha you, they see you as competition. Women on the other hand are a bit of a pushover. Its just a shame women (especially the real hot ones) don't have this mentality in the sexual market place and make it harder when it comes to sex.
 
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