"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get a sales job!

TheGambino

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Guys I got a new job next to my study 2.5 months ago, so far it's great! Im a salesman at a luxurious furniture brandstore. It's a great job to develop yourself in all kind of ways. You have to approach new clients all the time when they come in the store and the fun part is that you sell most stuff when you ask random questions and have fun walking true the store asking the clients what their looking for. If you have fun, ask a lot of questions, be interested and know youre products you'll be a great salesman.

Most of the time people make the decision emotionally, if they like you as a salesman they will do it 65% of the time even if their not 100% sure about the product their actually buying.

Besides that it's a great confidence boost, you have to dress well, shave and be on top of your game and looks to be a good salesman. Im sure such a job is great for anyone who wants to develop in presentation and so with the ladies.

I think the job is great for your own winners mindset, confidence and will help you to have fun conversations with the ladies and be succesfull in your carreer later on in almost any kind of other job !

Im happy with my job and I will get the max out of it, going great so far!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dhoulmagus

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I had a job where I called alumni and asked for money. I quit because my boss was bad and I wouldn't let me sale off script.
 

SeymourCake

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I'm currently a cashier at my electronics store. Sometimes they move people out to the floor to become a salesperson. I'll probably become a salesman soon.
 

Bible_Belt

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I've sold vacuum cleaners door to door, stocks, insurance, outdoor signs, real estate foreclosure deals, retirement plans, and mortgages. Almost all of my sales were always to women. Make a woman like you, and she will buy from you.
 

nzsnowman

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I was really worried about that grammar until I saw your location...

But yeah working sales will definitely do that for you!

I've found it helps the most with approach anxiety.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mangotot

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Bible_Belt said:
I've sold vacuum cleaners door to door, stocks, insurance, outdoor signs, real estate foreclosure deals, retirement plans, and mortgages. Almost all of my sales were always to women. Make a woman like you, and she will buy from you.
Most men don't buy because they want to out alpha you, they see you as competition. Women on the other hand are a bit of a pushover. Its just a shame women (especially the real hot ones) don't have this mentality in the sexual market place and make it harder when it comes to sex.
 
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