KillingTime
Senior Don Juan
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I think everything mentioned in this whole website/message board can be summed up in just getting a life. A few guys post all these "rules" and stuff, you turn yourself into a robot trying to remember all that junk, It's ok for motivation but that's about it. If you have a life, you have nothing to worry about. Having a life meaning that you are busy about 90% of the time doing things that fullfil you. Just being out there and involved in the world on a day to day basis:
1. Gets rid of most fears/insecurities and boosts your confidence
2. Allows you to meet new people and possibly make new friends. The more friends you have the less needy you are of a woman.
3. Means that you rarely have free-time. Too much free-time is bad, it can often lead to depression and if you get involved with a girl and have no life, oneitis! If you are constantly busy there is no need to fake anything like some people here suggest sometimes, no need to "act busy" or "wait a few days until you call her"... you literally won't have the time.
4. If you have lots of things going on in your life then that makes you an interesting person. Once again, no need to fake things and make up stories to impress. You'll always have plenty to talk about.
Just my opinion, having a life solves almost every AFC problem and eliminates the need to remember a huge percentage of the things mentioned here. Why put on an act and try to "create" yourself when you can just take the initial effort of forcing yourself into the real world and let it happen naturally? And it's not just joining clubs and activities. stuff like school, work and daily chores count too, the point is to always have something to do. More than an hour of free time per day is pretty bad IMO. I have yet to meet any truly busy/active person who has the time to worry about any girl/guy.
1. Gets rid of most fears/insecurities and boosts your confidence
2. Allows you to meet new people and possibly make new friends. The more friends you have the less needy you are of a woman.
3. Means that you rarely have free-time. Too much free-time is bad, it can often lead to depression and if you get involved with a girl and have no life, oneitis! If you are constantly busy there is no need to fake anything like some people here suggest sometimes, no need to "act busy" or "wait a few days until you call her"... you literally won't have the time.
4. If you have lots of things going on in your life then that makes you an interesting person. Once again, no need to fake things and make up stories to impress. You'll always have plenty to talk about.
Just my opinion, having a life solves almost every AFC problem and eliminates the need to remember a huge percentage of the things mentioned here. Why put on an act and try to "create" yourself when you can just take the initial effort of forcing yourself into the real world and let it happen naturally? And it's not just joining clubs and activities. stuff like school, work and daily chores count too, the point is to always have something to do. More than an hour of free time per day is pretty bad IMO. I have yet to meet any truly busy/active person who has the time to worry about any girl/guy.