"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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get a girl to ask YOU to prom

qwerty

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I first passed this site about six months ago. The funniest thing happened; after reading the Bible and everything, I just stopped caring about women. I didn't agree with a lot of what was in there, but it did open my eyes to a lot of things, and now I can say I am a better person for having read it. However, like I said before, I kinda stopped caring about women, with all the hassle involved. I do what I want to do, and the girl factor just slipped away. It turns out I really cared before because I wanted to prove my worth, and I really do not need to prove anything before. Ah well, I do believe I sparked interest in several girls since then, but with my lack of interest, they just kinda moved on.

Just curious, how would I go about getting a girl to ask me to prom? I'd rather it be one of my friends to keep the awkwardness bullpoop out. (so I have rapport, but far in the friend zone), and I really don't want to go as anything but as friends (I would like to stay in the friend zone afterward:cool: ). There is a five dollar's wager involved, if you really want to know why I am asking this. Keep in mind I have a week or two at most.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mpimpin

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Kev07 said:
only desperate girls taht don't have dates yet will ask a guy to prom.

even if they are madly in love with you, chances are, they will wait for you to ask.

well I partially agree with you especially depending on how far away your prom is the girls are probably desperate, but I was asked by 4 girls to prom the day after I broke up with my g/f and two of them i'd say are desperate. The other one has another date but said she'd rather go wtih me and the 4th one is in college and came to me and said she'd go to prom with me. That might be more likely she just wants to go to prom, but I've dated her before and there is chemistry there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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