"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get a girl to ask YOU to prom

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I first passed this site about six months ago. The funniest thing happened; after reading the Bible and everything, I just stopped caring about women. I didn't agree with a lot of what was in there, but it did open my eyes to a lot of things, and now I can say I am a better person for having read it. However, like I said before, I kinda stopped caring about women, with all the hassle involved. I do what I want to do, and the girl factor just slipped away. It turns out I really cared before because I wanted to prove my worth, and I really do not need to prove anything before. Ah well, I do believe I sparked interest in several girls since then, but with my lack of interest, they just kinda moved on.

Just curious, how would I go about getting a girl to ask me to prom? I'd rather it be one of my friends to keep the awkwardness bullpoop out. (so I have rapport, but far in the friend zone), and I really don't want to go as anything but as friends (I would like to stay in the friend zone afterward:cool: ). There is a five dollar's wager involved, if you really want to know why I am asking this. Keep in mind I have a week or two at most.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kev07 said:
only desperate girls taht don't have dates yet will ask a guy to prom.

even if they are madly in love with you, chances are, they will wait for you to ask.
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well I partially agree with you especially depending on how far away your prom is the girls are probably desperate, but I was asked by 4 girls to prom the day after I broke up with my g/f and two of them i'd say are desperate. The other one has another date but said she'd rather go wtih me and the 4th one is in college and came to me and said she'd go to prom with me. That might be more likely she just wants to go to prom, but I've dated her before and there is chemistry there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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