"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get a Female Friend...

letmeshowyou

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I've got a female friend, an attractive female friend. But here's the thing, I do the same things w/ her that I would a male friend... sheeit, I go places with her and hit on other women and all that. But the best part of having a FEMALE friend is ... we have sex. :) And since shes not my girlfriend we don't have to worry about meeting each other's expectations. How much better could it get?

Being someone who has had a good share of serious relationships, I should have been doing this a long time ago. I wouldn't trade in this kind of happiness for the world. She took me to one of her friends' birthday parties last night. She introduced me to her peoples, I drank and danced all night with women I otherwise would have never came in contact with. In other words, I meet other women through her. LOVELY

So instead of looking for a GIRLFRIEND, be content with having a female as a FRIEND. I know I am. :crazy:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Le Parisien

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Good for you man!

Only I have a question: what is in for her?

I mean why would she introduce you to other hot girls? What benefits does she get?
I also have female friends who introduce me to their friends, but that's because they are trying to be "helpful", I'm not sleeping with my female friends.
 

letmeshowyou

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a friend should always have your best interests in mind... i guess she knows that i would be interested in her friends... ??? i don't know
 
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