"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get a Female Friend...

letmeshowyou

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I've got a female friend, an attractive female friend. But here's the thing, I do the same things w/ her that I would a male friend... sheeit, I go places with her and hit on other women and all that. But the best part of having a FEMALE friend is ... we have sex. :) And since shes not my girlfriend we don't have to worry about meeting each other's expectations. How much better could it get?

Being someone who has had a good share of serious relationships, I should have been doing this a long time ago. I wouldn't trade in this kind of happiness for the world. She took me to one of her friends' birthday parties last night. She introduced me to her peoples, I drank and danced all night with women I otherwise would have never came in contact with. In other words, I meet other women through her. LOVELY

So instead of looking for a GIRLFRIEND, be content with having a female as a FRIEND. I know I am. :crazy:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Le Parisien

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Good for you man!

Only I have a question: what is in for her?

I mean why would she introduce you to other hot girls? What benefits does she get?
I also have female friends who introduce me to their friends, but that's because they are trying to be "helpful", I'm not sleeping with my female friends.
 

letmeshowyou

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a friend should always have your best interests in mind... i guess she knows that i would be interested in her friends... ??? i don't know
 
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