Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
For starters, i've got no interest in your statistics and numbers.skip2mylou781 said:if i told u that i fvck 1/3 girls i go on a date with, all averaging hb7, would u call that "consistant"?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If you specify that you fcuk one out of three girls you date, but you have to approach 150 girls to get those three dates, should people still consider you a pimp?skip2mylou781 said:if i told u that i fvck 1/3 girls i go on a date with, all averaging hb7, would u call that "consistant"?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
S1NN3R said:If you specify that you fcuk one out of three girls you date, but you have to approach 150 girls to get those three dates, should people still consider you a pimp?
realsmoothie said:I'd say you're lying. You spend half your time on this site rambling on about how many girls you screw.
If I was having even HALF of the women you claim to have on a regular basis, I wouldn't think about coming on here and bragging about it. Sh*t, I wouldn't come on here at all (insert come joke now).