I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
For starters, i've got no interest in your statistics and numbers.skip2mylou781 said:if i told u that i fvck 1/3 girls i go on a date with, all averaging hb7, would u call that "consistant"?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you specify that you fcuk one out of three girls you date, but you have to approach 150 girls to get those three dates, should people still consider you a pimp?skip2mylou781 said:if i told u that i fvck 1/3 girls i go on a date with, all averaging hb7, would u call that "consistant"?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
S1NN3R said:If you specify that you fcuk one out of three girls you date, but you have to approach 150 girls to get those three dates, should people still consider you a pimp?
realsmoothie said:I'd say you're lying. You spend half your time on this site rambling on about how many girls you screw.
If I was having even HALF of the women you claim to have on a regular basis, I wouldn't think about coming on here and bragging about it. Sh*t, I wouldn't come on here at all (insert come joke now).