"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gestures without a word that got her attention

Naughty Ninja

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Anyone ever wind up meeting a chick by not saying anything but making a funny gesture, hand signal etc.

I love to act like a fool when I'm out. One time at a night spot in Boca Raton Florida I was sitting with my cousin and friends and for the hell of it saw pretty hot chick and with one hand while she was looking at me and a dumb smirk on my face put my thumb to my chest then with the same hand put two fingers close to my eyes then pointed at her. (gesturing: I'm, looking, at YOU.) She started cracking up as did I and we wound up BSing, exchanging numbers and fooled around a bit.

Another time some hooters chick was walking by (found out later she worked there) and I was sitting on a stool and I silently just straight out pointed at the hat she was wearing..same result Chick started cracking up and we wound up BSing. Nothing more as I had a girlfriend at the time.

Anyone else do some idiotic gesture without saying a word and it wound up working? Both times I was thinking WTF that worked?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Anyone ever wind up meeting a chick by not saying anything but making a funny gesture, hand signal etc.

I love to act like a fool when I'm out. One time at a night spot in Boca Raton Florida I was sitting with my cousin and friends and for the hell of it saw pretty hot chick and with one hand while she was looking at me and a dumb smirk on my face put my thumb to my chest then with the same hand put two fingers close to my eyes then pointed at her. (gesturing: I'm, looking, at YOU.) She started cracking up as did I and we wound up BSing, exchanging numbers and fooled around a bit.

Another time some hooters chick was walking by (found out later she worked there) and I was sitting on a stool and I silently just straight out pointed at the hat she was wearing..same result Chick started cracking up and we wound up BSing. Nothing more as I had a girlfriend at the time.

Anyone else do some idiotic gesture without saying a word and it wound up working? Both times I was thinking WTF that worked?!

Im going to steal those techniques from you and see if they work, esp this one

"saw pretty hot chick and with one hand while she was looking at me and a dumb smirk on my face put my thumb to my chest then with the same hand put two fingers close to my eyes then pointed at her. (gesturing: I'm, looking, at YOU.)"

I will try them tonight and write a full field report back.

Hopefully this does not lead to another confrontation with the HB's BF again.
 

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Yeah, I have a few from sticking out my tongue to winking. I also do finger guns...there's one I wanna try but havent got round to it yet but its not just a gesture.

You walk up to the target, point with two finger guns, smile and say "there you are" you have to say it like you know em. hopefully, they respond with "do I know you?" you say "no, but there you are!" and walk away. Stole it from Austin Powers but its funny. Just not sure they will give the right response so I havent worked up to using it yet.

Anotherone that works for me is after Ive winked, stuck tongue out etc, if i get a positive reaction then later when I see the girl I walk passed her and lightly poke her in the small of her back, walk off and give a sideways back glance with a smile....this has always got a good reaction but only used it to follow up a previous gesture.
 

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I put on a strong Indain accent and say "Hoe are you" they always smile cos they know im mucking about. I somtimes do that thing that Indians do, where they tilt there head from side to side, and say the same thing.



A good shop/store opener with women is if they make small talk, and ask how you are, i always say "terrible"....there mothering side comes out, and they are like "ah, really whats wrong (i then think "whats wrong is i want to shave your cuunt tonight, but i dont have your number yet ;)
 

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I literally take my balls out in the middle of the dance floor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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