"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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German Patterns

TBR

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Hi

I am from Germany and I do all my sarging in German. Of course I have to use German patterns. Does anyone have Germany patterns? Otherwise I will translate some.
Maybe someone knows of a page in the web, where I can find german patterns.

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TBR
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am french and as I translated the patterns, I noticed that it's not possible to translate exactly, not that i want to translate verbatim but i can't translate directly from the pattern (otherwise it's either unnatural or awkward). I have to take the main ideas (command verbs...) and imagine what the pattern describes then write the pattern (in french) without looking at the original pattern.
Sure it helps to remember, but it's hard to make the pattern express the same thing WHILE being enjoyable to listen to. Do u have the same problem ?
 

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Ok... I thought about it and read some post. I will still translate patterns for personal needs but i'll not really use them. I think that weasel phrases and improvising the phrase in which i will include command words and states/experiences will be more reliable and easy. I've already tried weasel phrases that to some extent and it worked (i didn't go far because i didn't entirely understood the concept). Next week i'll give it another try and see if it works like whole patterns are supposed to work.
 

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Whatsup german guys. Sorry to go off-topic.

What does 'komm zu mir' means???

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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Awkward:
"Come to me" right?

Maybe "*** to me"


I'm swedish.

--- Awkward
Sorry guys this is going to be a little off-topic.

Awkward fan va bra att du har översatt en del saker till svenska hära. Har själv tänkt att göra det men har inte haft tid, fortsätt att jobba på polarn.

Led


[This message has been edited by Ledoyen (edited 11-24-2002).]
 

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Sorry guys, this is going to be a little off-topic too.

Lugnt alltså, har du MSN, ICQ, eller lunarstorm?

Svårt att få det och låta bra på svenska, har du testat SS någongång ute bland folk? Blir fasen kåt av att se att det finns en svensk som sysslar med samma grejer, jag blir så lycklig! Var är du ifrån?

--- Awkward
 

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Originally posted by Awkward:

Sorry guys, this is going to be a little off-topic too.

Lugnt alltså, har du MSN, ICQ, eller lunarstorm?

Svårt att få det och låta bra på svenska, har du testat SS någongång ute bland folk? Blir fasen kåt av att se att det finns en svensk som sysslar med samma grejer, jag blir så lycklig! Var är du ifrån?

--- Awkward
Jag har inte testat det ute bland folk, bara bland kompisar. Har haft problem med att få det till att låta bra på svenska.

Adda mig på msn: [email protected]

Jag är från stockholm. Ciao

Led
 

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Hi TBR!

The patterns will be easier for you to remember if you use your own words. I’m Swedish, so I have to translate it myself too. Some language specific parts can not be translated correctly, but I’m not sorry for that. I wouldn’t have pronounced happiness as ha-PENIS anyway. I think the goal of the pattern can be achieved without risking getting caught by using stupid ‘soundalikes’ like that one.

I would like to be able to use the phrase “Now... with me ...”, but I haven’t found a good translation for that yet. :-( I think that’s a killer phrase!

To the Swedish people:

Hej Awkward och Ledoyen. Ytterligare en svensk.


Det var ett bra tag sedan jag hittade hit, men det har inte blivit så mkt postat det senaste... Jag har testat lite patterns, men har inte riktigt nått önskvärda resultat än.

Visst är den här sidan toppen!!! Den har hjälpt mig att hitta de principer som fungerar mindre bra och ersätta dem med bättre. Det är tragiskt att 99% av Sveriges befolkning gör samma misstag gång på gång utan att upptäcka det!

ICQ: 95866997

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ha-penis ... haha!

To the swedish people too...

Nej håller helt med... det ger inte så mycket resultat... svårt för svenskar är så bortkopplade från sina känslor, jag tror man måste få mer samhörighet utan patterns innan man börjar... skämta med dem och så... För blyga det är något svenskar är.

Nu är vi i vilket fall tre svenskar... en från Stockholm... TBR... en från Norrköping... Jag och Du från GBG... det är som gjort för en sammankomst i ett par dagar i Örebro någongång där vi kan lära känna varandra, öva tekniker och bara ha åt helvete kul! Vad säger svenskarna om det?

Mm, den här sidan är toppen, synd bara att de 99% av svenskarna skulle kalla oss förlorare om de såg att vi var här, det är så skrattretande.


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Hell yeeh, come visit me in sweden I teach you the ultimate Swedish pickupline...

Wow, du är både blondin och snygg, min pult pulserar med glädje när jag ser dig. Är du lika kåt som du ser ut.


You'll get to nail a lot of beautiful swedish blondes... but don't get to excited.


Hey = Hej
Are = Är
You = du
Horny? = Kåt?
Meatball = köttbulle

That's all you need to know.

--- Awkward
 

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lol Awkward
That pickupline work every single time for me.

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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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W'hing tze ima woshimas, Pedro!

Swedish girls are wonderful, especially those from skåne. mm!

Any more Speed Seducers from Sweden anyone?
 

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Ei Pedro, é bom saber que tem alguém que fala portugês por aqui !!

Well, I think that in the future we'll have learned SS and 3 or 4 different languages


Awkard, I wouldn't mind having some swedish blondes for myself

And I think you wouldn't mind having some brazilian babes too!!
 

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Antimatter

can you give me some links about french patterns / websites about seduction?

(I'm currently as exchange student in France, and could really use them)

my email:bxx at gmx dot de
 
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