"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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If i see a girl on myspace and have a reason to message her i will do so and she will write back and we will get on great, i could get her email address if i wanted to. When i meet a girl in person e.g. through freinds she will ussualy want to talk to me and be freindly.

All this time i am being genuine and sinceir, and i talk to girls and they are happy to hear from me.

ON the other hand if i go out of my way to chat up a girl, if i say to myself, im going to this party and plan to pull a girl, i wont mange to, the girls will avoid me.

If i have not the slightest intention to get with any girl, for example if i dont expect to see any girls and suddenly some girl turns up, I can do well.

Can any of you relate to this? I litraly have no game when i try to game a girl but if i am genuine and dont talk with the girl to chat her up but rather just being freindly with no intentions on the side then she iwll take to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You don't need to talk a girl up. You're yourself and you're confident. You can make a girl laugh with a few words, and walk away from her to go mingle with others. You don't aim for girls, you make them aim for you. You're the prize.

This should be your mindset.
 

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WC2 said:
You don't need to talk a girl up. You're yourself and you're confident. You can make a girl laugh with a few words, and walk away from her to go mingle with others. You don't aim for girls, you make them aim for you. You're the prize.

This should be your mindset.
When i do that im ace, but when i have been seeting myself up to chat up a girl, even if i say im going to chat up a girl at the pary tonight, any girl. I am still setting myself up for failure.
 

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The girls you do talk to who are happy to hear from you - do you sleep with them or are you just friends
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
If i see a girl on myspace and have a reason to message her i will do so and she will write back and we will get on great, i could get her email address if i wanted to. When i meet a girl in person e.g. through freinds she will ussualy want to talk to me and be freindly.

All this time i am being genuine and sinceir, and i talk to girls and they are happy to hear from me.

ON the other hand if i go out of my way to chat up a girl, if i say to myself, im going to this party and plan to pull a girl, i wont mange to, the girls will avoid me.

If i have not the slightest intention to get with any girl, for example if i dont expect to see any girls and suddenly some girl turns up, I can do well.

Can any of you relate to this? I litraly have no game when i try to game a girl but if i am genuine and dont talk with the girl to chat her up but rather just being freindly with no intentions on the side then she iwll take to me.
**** this gameing bull**** and all the ****ed up **** on this site

take my advice: if your not ugly as ****, just be ****ing hilarous but kind of arrogent at the same time, like exaple:
HER: OH (YOU), I JUST LOVE THAT PICTURE IM PUTTING IT ON MY MYSPACE
YOu: ok
HER: REFRESH THE PAGE DO YOU SEE IT
You: YEah now you myspace is cool
you know **** liek taht understand?
 
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